Hello and welcome to my blog! I’m a dad, padel player, entrepreneur and investor with a very strong sense of curiosity about many seemingly unrelated subjects.
I grew up in Malta, lived in five countries, and am currently based in Barcelona, Spain. I’ve also visited more than 50 countries.
I think of my life as being a long challenge in getting to know myself deeply and gaining mastery over my body and my mind while integrating perfectly into my surroundings. Apart from continuous education and exploratory projects, I find Stoic philosophy with a dash of zen meditation and a healthy dose of “fuck you” thinking (read this and this).
I also love the concept of taking the red pill.
My overarching goal in life is to be free, and I define freedom via four main pillars:
- Health
- Relationships
- Knowledge
- Wealth
I need all four of them to be at excellent levels to be happy. It’s taken a long time for me to come to this conclusion, but I can now say that it’s very clear for me what those pillars are and what I need to do to have them all in sync.
The overarching goal of my life has always been the quest for ultimate freedom. Those four pillars fit in perfectly with this goal.
You need to be healthy to be able to play sports, play with your kids, and travel. You will need financial wealth to rid yourself of the basic worries of subsistence and to be able to travel. As you travel, you need knowledge to understand what you’re seeing and learn from your experiences. You need relationships so that you can share what you learn and also learn from those close to you. There will also be times when you will support those people in times of weakness, and other times where you will need their support.
My current online projects
My two main areas of focus at the moment are fitness and investment. I train daily and compete in several padel tournaments every year. I’ve always had a dream of being an athlete and I’ve finally gotten the chance to fulfill it.
On the investment side, I am fascinated by the intersection of finance and technology, more commonly referred to as fintech. I invest and blog about P2P lending, real estate and other topics within this niche. I also host the Mastermind.fm podcast, where I interview other successful investments and experts in the field of finance.
- Mastermind.fm – a podcast about business, investing and other topics I fancy.
- Eurofinanceblogs.com – a European finance and investment news and content aggregator site.
- Crypto Headlines – a crypto-asset news and content aggregator site.
- Padel Vida – the world’s best padel site in English.
Previous online projects
For many years I was deeply involved in the WordPress community, right from the early days of the project. I’ve run a WordPress agency as well as blogged extensively about WP and created several plugins, the most well-known of which is WP RSS Aggregator. I continue to maintain a keen interest in the space although I’m not as actively involved nowadays.
- WP Mayor – a blog focused on helping people learn more about WordPress, founded in 2010
- WP RSS Aggregator – WordPress plugin for importing RSS content, founded in 2012
- WP News Desk – a WordPress news and content aggregator site.
- Other WordPress plugins (my open source contributions on WordPress.org)
Some tidbits:
- Current location: Barcelona, Spain
- Favorite books and podcasts
- Favorite beverages: coffee & red wine
- My Hardware setup
- My Software setup
- My Padel Tournament history
My 5 major strengths according to the Strengths Finder test:
- Focus
- Futuristic
- Restorative
- Discipline
- Significance
My dominant tendency according to the Grethen Rubin Four Tendencies test: Questioner.
Another popular psychological test is the Myers-Briggs test. My result is INTJ, which stands for Introvert, iNtuitive, Thinking, Judging.
Another psychological test is the Big Five Traits test, and here are my results. According to the Enneagram test I’m an Achiever.
I still need to complete the Wheel of Life test and the Cube Test.
Favorite music genres: Classic rock, eurodance, synthwave, classical, reggaeton, bachata, deep house.
Favorite band: Queen
Favorite song: I Want It All
Chronotype: Lion
I’m fascinated by human cognitive biases and psychological principles.
Training and fitness is an integral part of my life, especially as I grow older.
I have quite a skeptical outlook on things and like to say it like it is. I believe that being honest about what I like and dislike helps me find my ideal environment and be at peace. Writing about things that bother me is also a form of therapy.
I consider myself a citizen of the world (watch this). I also identify with skeptics. That means that I’m a person inclined to question or doubt many widely accepted opinions. In common vernacular, a skeptic is someone who requires extraordinary evidence before accepting extraordinary claims. Essentially, this equates to having a scientific world view. Finally, I consider myself a student of life, which means that I view life as a long course with my daily goal being that of making sense of this life.
Some of my favorite authors that have shaped my views on the world:
- Sam Harris
- Shane Parrish
- David Caine
- Derek Sivers
- DHH
- Tim Ferriss
- Behavioral Scientist
- Alain de Botton
Curious fact: when I was a young kid I really enjoyed reading user manuals. I guess I’ve always had a deep curiosity about how things work.
While I’m an introvert, I do enjoy spending quality time with people, but there are many behaviors that tick me off and drive me insane, so depending on where I am, I might need to take a break and retreat into my private space after a while.
Finding Purpose and Meaning
I love the writings of Derek Sivers, so let me share some of his points on starting and growing a business since it has always been something I’ve loved being involved in.
- Business is not about money. It’s about making dreams come true for others and for yourself.
- Making a company is a great way to improve the world while improving yourself.
- When you make a company, you make a utopia. It’s where you design your perfect world.
- Never do anything just for the money.
- Don’t pursue business just for your own gain. Only answer the calls for help.
- Success comes from persistently improving and inventing, not from persistently promoting what’s not working.
- Your business plan is moot. You don’t know what people really want until you start doing it.
- Starting with no money is an advantage. You don’t need money to start helping people.
- You can’t please everyone, so proudly exclude people.
- Make yourself unnecessary to the running of your business.
- The real point of doing anything is to be happy, so do only what makes you happy.
Another thing worth reading is Hunter S. Thompson’s Letter on Finding Your Purpose and Living a Meaningful Life.
I truly believe in breaking the conventions, doing something you love and that you are passionate about. Only by doing this will you ever be happy in your life.
I believe in playing throughout life, trying and failing over and over at the many things that pique my interest.
Don’t you have a feeling, like me, that most people spend their lives chasing a highly paid job or career promotion? That might give you more financial security, but what are you sacrificing?
Think about it.
What about the stress, being forced to fit into a system, the office politics, and going against your core values. All these are daily features of corporate life. At one point you will end up asking yourself: what am I doing with my life?
Life is not about how much money you have, or the heights you’ve reached in your career. It is about you and your talents, and how you are going to use them as best as you can, doing something you truly love.
Everyone has to find his own ingredients for a happy and fulfilling life, but some of mine are:
- Exercise and keeping healthy
- Having a close and valued circle of family and friends
- Spirituality and an inner life
- Fulfilling work
- Enjoying good food and travel
Of course, it’s also true that you need money to be happy. It’s not something that will make you happy, but it will solve many problems that make you unhappy and prevent you from pursuing your dreams.
If you need some more inspiration, read on…
Online Business Ventures
My biggest success story to date is WP Mayor (founded in late 2010), a WordPress blog which started out as a place where I could store all the new cool things I was learning about WordPress. Perhaps the biggest lesson learned from the success of WP Mayor is that in order to receive, you must first give.
Of course, many of us have already heard this phrase from many sources, but to experience it first hand is truly life-changing. WP Mayor has given me much more than the freedom to work whenever and wherever I want. Beyond the financial benefits of blogging, I have come to value the new relationships I built and the opportunity to meet and learn from great people in the WordPress community.
I have also ventured into the digital product business by launching WP RSS Aggregator (early 2012), one of the most popular plugins for importing RSS content into WordPress sites. It is currently being used by more than 50,000 websites. The product operates on a freemium model with a free version available on the WordPress.org plugin repository and more premium add-ons are available on the WP RSS Aggregator website.
After starting WP RSS Aggregator, I realized that the key to continue growing in the coming years would be to build a team of people that would be better than me at particular things in the business e.g. programming. I’m very blessed to have been able to assemble a group of highly motivated and talented people that have helped grow the projects I’ve started to higher levels and steer the business forward without me at the helm.
In the podcasting space, I co-host Mastermind.fm, a podcast about doing business in the WordPress space, amongst other topics. I’ve also had the pleasure of giving talks and being interviewed by several websites in the WordPress space.
After decreasing my involvement in the WordPress scene, I’ve been dedicated the majority of my time to investing and my padel project.
My Life Story
I was born and raised on the tiny island of Malta. My teenage years were good, although nothing spectacular. I loved trying out new things especially when it comes to sports, and reading was also one of my biggest hobbies. I never particularly liked the way the educational system worked and was quite a rebel at times. However I had a huge thirst for knowledge so I guess the two compensated each other, and I fared well at school.
I was always interested in entrepreneurship and would spend countless hours reading about how businesses were founded and about new business ideas that were being explored. The arrival of the internet was a huge game-changer for me. I immediately realized that whatever I did during the rest of my life, my work had to be related to the internet. Coupled with my fascination with business and entrepreneurship, my passion for the internet and computing would provide the basis for the next few years.
In my early twenties, I attended University and majored in Business and Computer Science, before spending a year in the UK reading for my Masters degree in Multimedia and Computer science.
The experience of living and studying in the UK was a clear turning point in my life.
Although I had traveled extensively all over Europe on short family holidays, this was the first time that I had spent considerable time abroad and also lived apart from my family. I had the chance to immerse myself in another culture and meet many fantastic people from all over the world. In short, this experience opened my eyes to the exhilaration of long term traveling and exploration.
On my return to Malta, contrary to expectations, I didn’t get a job but started working on my own ideas and online ventures.
Unable to resist the wanderlust, I eventually left Malta in my mid-twenties to become a digital nomad, living in Barcelona and later on in Mallorca. That’s where I met my wife Alyona (we got married in September 2013). Since she was also keen on traveling and exploring the world, we spent the next few years visiting many countries together while working on our business. We lived in Thailand, Mexico, Malta, Spain and we also spent a few months traveling around Europe.
After visiting close to 50 countries, we settled on Barcelona as our favorite place to live in. We made the definite move in 2017. In Barcelona, I discovered padel, which is the fastest growing sport in Europe. I have always enjoyed racket sports, but I found padel in particular to be really addictive. Through padel, I also get to meet new people and network, so there is a strong social element as well. I am now training hard to become a good padel player, and I’m enjoying participating in tournaments both locally and internationally.
I became a dad in December 2018, welcoming my son Leo Jan to the world and am now very much immersed in this new and wonderful experience.
I’m now spending lots of time with my son and experiencing the joys of helping him reaching the many milestones that babies and toddlers gift us with.
When I’m not with him, you’ll find me writing articles on my blog, reading, training or meeting people one-on-one.
It’s one of my goals this year to continue engaging in deep one-on-one conversations in-person here in Barcelona. If you’d love to sit down for a coffee, do get in touch.
To conclude, one of my all-time favorite quotes…
“I don’t think of work as work and play as play. It’s all living.” – Richard Branson
